How to Get The Boy You Want

Observe his girlfriend/girls he likes. If you're an emo girl and he's dating a chav, he may only like girls like that. It's sad, but it's true. However, he may not only like girls like that. Note the similarities between the two of you. Do you have similar hair or bodies? Think about it. Then note the things that make you better than her. If you have a better sense of humour than she does, flaunt it to him. If you can, also note difficulties in their relationship. For example, if she doesnt like the music/style/people

that he does, show him (DISCREETLY) that you do.

Now it's time to get very observant. Notice small things he does. For the positive signs:

If he looks at you when you're not looking at him, it could be a sign (By the way, the way to do that is to look out of the corner of your eye.)

If he looks deep into your eyes, it shows he cares.

If he asks people about you, it could be a sign.

For the negatives:

He talks about how lovely his girlfriend/girl he likes is.

He tells you reasons he wouldnt go out with you (This happened to me - Not nice.)

Do your hair or makeup differently, or perhaps wear something you wouldnt usually wear near him and notice his reaction. If he says he likes it, then maybe do it more often. If he says he doesnt, avoid this look like the plague. Sometimes just a look can say everything you need to know - Use your own instinct.

Get some friends together and do some spy work SECRETLY. Make sure they're friends you can trust - This secret getting out could ruin everything you've worked for. If one of your friends sit next to him in a class, ask them to casually ask them about his interests, and perhaps maybe slip you in the conversation.

Now to get onto his radar more if you already arent. Get into his social circle. Befriend one of his friends, preferrably a girl; you'll be on more common ground. This way, not only do you get to hang out with him, you can DISCREETLY question this friend over what he likes to do, where he hangs out and what his interests are.

Once you've started to hang out with him, try talking to him about what he likes, music he's into, etcetera. Try to hang out alone with him. Once you've started to get o be quite good friends, start to flirt lightly. The better friends you get/if he responds, flirt heavier.

Now for the difficult part; making him jealous. You need to strike the perfect balance - If you dont make him jealous enough, he wont care. If you do it too much, you'll drive him away. The best way to do this is go to a party or social gathering of some sort with someone else. If you cant go there with someone else as a date, just flirt lightly with them. But, three tips;

1: Dont go with/flirt with one of his friends. It's just not cool.

2: Dont flirt too heavily with the boy you're using. It's cruel.

3: Dont turn down your crush if he asks you. That would defeat the object of this.

By now, he might probably be interested. If he's not, I hate to say it but he might only see you as a friend. BUT the good news is, he might just be a bit dim, so perhaps turn up the signals. Remember - Use your intuition. If he is, perhaps ask him on a date. I know it's scary but it has to be done. It doesnt have to be a HUGE date. Maybe go on a group date, but with no more than six people. Or maybe just drop it into the conversation: 'I'm going to be totally bored this weekend. Fancy going to see a movie/going swimming/going bowling/whatever?' If you're going on a group date, hang out with him a little bit more. For example, if you were going swimming, play a game with him; if you were going bowling, sit and chat with him when it's not your turn. Also, if you're going bowling, tell him how totally rubbish you are (even if you arent) and ask him to help you. Not only will you stroke his ego but you might even get him to hold your hand whilst helping you.